Showing posts with label Come on get happy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Come on get happy. Show all posts

Thursday, January 30, 2014

"Healthy Me" Update - Month 1

Hey ya'll, hey.

I am holding myself accountable and posting my "Healthier Me" updates from month one. I think the end of January is where most New Year's Resolutions typically go to die, but I am hoping I keep my momentum going because it's paying off!

Diet: I'm not on a "diet" but I have been limiting carbs to only complex carbs found in vegetables, and trying to save my whole grain carbs like quinoa or pasta for one meal a day. So, since I only ate meats and veggies for lunch yesterday, I had pasta for dinner. Not super scientific stuff here. I also cut out most sugar except coffee creamer and what is naturally found in foods. Though I did cheat the other day and had half a doughnut AND a cupcake on our non-snow day, because, reasons.


I am having ALOT of fun experimenting with new veggie/meat recipes. I've had this spaghetti squash recipe 3 times already, and it's so yummy and filling. I also signed up for the Six O'Clock Scramble meal planning system and it has been awesome. The recipes are healthy, can be substituted if I don't like a suggested meal, and it gives me a grocery list with everything I need. This system is perfect for a working mom who wants to streamline the dinner process. I love that each recipe has reviews too. I pretty much just love everything about it. And no, they didn't pay me to say that, I'm just a huge fan!

Body: Amazingly, I am down 7lbs, and now weigh the least I've weighed since 2010. I'm not gonna lie, I am thrilled/shocked with these results and hope to stick to it to lose about 10 more. I know they say most of weight loss comes from the beginning stages, but it sure is a good motivator. Maybe once I get the courage, I'll share some before and after photos so that you can all barf.

I've lost 1.5 inches in my waist, 1 inch off my hips, and .5 inches of my thighs. Clearly I am a pear-shaped person, so it will take awhile for the inches to balance out, but inches are inches, yo.

Most importantly, I feel better in clothes. The biggest difference I've noticed with eating fewer carbs is that I never feel bloated. And with 3 pregnancies in 3 years, it's hard to believe your stomach can ever look/feel flat again, but it's really working. I feel more confident, and even if the changes are imperceptible to others, I notice and that is by far the most important thing.

Exercise: My favorite part of my healthier me initiative. I believe it was Elle Woods who said, quote 'Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy. Happy people don't shoot their husbands. They just don't." So, lucky for Jon, I have all kinds of endorphins now. I've been doing the Tone It Up Love Your Body Challenge, and I've realized that variety and flexibility is the key to making me stick with working out. I can't do the same things every day otherwise I get bored. This challenge has made me try new things, work out different muscle groups, and has given me so much more energy. Sometimes it's hard to squeeze in a workout after the girls go to bed, but I always try to find time to do something. If it's a night where Emerson goes to bed a little later than usual, instead of going to the gym, I'll do a HIIT workout from YouTube. HIIT is awesome and super efficient, which is perfect for me because with two kids and a full-time job, everything requires efficiency. Well, at least from Monday to Friday. Weekends are a whole 'nother story.

Mentally:  Emerson is as happy as ever, and Anna is developing by leaps and bounds every day, so my parental anxiety has gone down significantly since the fall. Plus, with three vacations planned for this year, I have zero to complain about. Everyone is happy and healthy, and so now I have some free time to dedicate to keeping myself happy and healthy as well.

Just a random mommy/daughter weekend selfie.
 So.... so far, so good I guess? Bring it on, February! 5 months till bathing suit season, and I WILL be ready.

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Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Happy things

I miss Jon. A LOT. I realized through the last 28 days that I completely take for granted how much he does for us. He is very hands-on, and I should be eternally grateful for how helpful and supportive he is.

But the good news is.... HE'LL BE HOME IN 58 HOURS!!!!! Only 58 hours separates me from the love of my life. I feel like I've done nothing but bitch and whine for the last month, and so for the next 58 hours, I'm only going to talk about happy, positive things.

For instance.... Emerson's first birthday party is on Saturday. I am more excited than she is. Probably because she has no idea what's going on. But she has a BIG surprise for daddy, and I hope she's as excited to see him as I am. I just can't wait to gather together to celebrate her 12 months here. (Sob - how is she almost a one year old? Ok, sticking to happy things).

What a big girl! I've had so much fun planning little details for her party. I originally thought I wanted a Nutcracker theme, to go with a December birthday but not be focused on Christmas, but holy crap, have you ever looked at one of those things up close???


That is freaking terrifying.

So I picked a less-frightening, but still seasonally appropriate theme of "Winter Ballerina." I found tons of pictures and ideas on Pinterest for inspiration, basically pinning anything that was a combo of pink and white or looked winter-y but not Christmas-y.


Source: hwtm.com via Audra on Pinterest






Sidenote to moms out there... Do you ever stop and think: "Holy crap, I have a child." I'm planning a birthday party for the CHILD that is mine? My child. MY baby. I have a baby. Sometimes I blink and think "Wasn't I just in middle school?" and now I have a daughter. Life is crazy/beautiful.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

30 Day Blog Challenge: Day 10

Day 10: Something you're afraid of. 

Dear Jack,

Today is the day I've been afraid of for the last 4 months. I've known it was coming, and I've tried to push it to the back of my mind, but now it's here.

Today is the day you were supposed to be here with us. 2-2-11. Your due date. Today disbelief and denial will turn into reality and acceptance, because you're not here.

We're in the middle of blizzard today buddy. Remember how Grandma and Grandpa joked about how there would be a blizzard in town and they would drive 5mph but they would make it here to meet you? Well, they were right about the weather at least. The freezing rain even canceled all of the schools around here, and our street looks like a skating rink.

I want so badly for you to be here today in my arms, crying, screaming, sleeping, and doing all of the adorable things that little newborn sweethearts do. I still don't understand why you're not, but that's not your fault. It's no one's fault. I probably never will understand why you were taken away from us, but in that short time you have shown me so much about who I am, about who your dad is, and the beauty of life. These are lessons I know I would not have learned without you as my son.

I hope you're not disappointed that I still miss you so much. I know you are happy and in a far better place than I could ever imagine, but when I get reminders of you (and it happens alot), all I want is for things to be different. I have never wanted anything more than to be your mother.

I guess getting through today means that I can stop living in the "if only" and the "why me?" and start living more in the moment. Getting through 2-2-11 means that this limbo part of our lives has ended, and hopefully good things are to come.

As I was driving home last night, I randomly stopped to pick up Chinese food (who likes to cook during a blizzard?!?) I got this as my fortune cookie, and I'm going to take it as a sign:
Coincidence? Maybe. But I know my boy and I know you want me to be happy. I love you Jack.